And yet he is our brother in so many ways. As a young student Thomas spent six years studying under St. Albert the Great who perceived his superior abilities and honed his skills at thinking through difficult topics. In the classroom, Thomas rarely offered answers or argued questions. He was quiet and reserved and even somewhat shy, giving his classmates the impression that he was not very bright. One even offered to tutor him each day after class, an offer which Thomas humbly and gratefully accepted. Because of this reticence to speak out and because of his rather large physical build, some of his classmates dubbed him "the dumb ox". Albert, his teacher and friend, knew better, and he prophesied that some day the bellowing of this ‘ox’ would be heard around the world.

When he became sufficiently prepared, St. Albert and the Dominican superiors, sent Thomas to teach. In the classroom leading the discussions, he excelled. His way of explaining abstract concepts made them understandable to the students in his day and to others down through the centuries.
His study of the Scriptures made Thomas aware that God passionately loves each one of us and has offered to become our ‘best friend’. Jesus said to his disciples, "I no longer call you servants but friends" (John 15:15). Friendship is something we can all relate to. It flows from frequent encounters to get to know each other in a deeply personal way, and sharing all of our thoughts, fears, hopes, pains and joys. It brings about complete trust in our friend, knowing that we can count on him for support, empathy, and help in whatever we are going through at the moment.
If we too, faithfully spend time with God each day, we will become more and more, ‘best friends’ with him. As we turn over in our minds our plans, uncertainties, fears, hopes, and joys, we can simply direct that internal conversation to God, and thus we are praying. In this way we can, as St. Paul suggests, "Pray always".







